Realisation and manifestation of Truth should lead to less attachment and desire in the expression of love and compassion rather than more attachment and desire in the expression of love and affection. 

Padmapani (1954-), Padmapani is a Dharma teacher, a disciple of the late Ven. Subhadra Goldwater. He has studied and practiced oriental medicine for the past 40 years and is one of the founding members of the the Path to Wisdom project.